Bad Day and Some A$$hole Oinked at Me.

I wrote this Friday night.  But hit the wrong button and saved it instead of posting it.   

I am so tired and I am trying to wind down from another long day.  I am on vacation next week from my full time job.  The rest of the week won’t be any different from the norm though.  Today I was trying to prepare the guys and my manager asks “What do you do?”.  That is NOT what I wanted to hear!  I went over what they need to expect and how to get by enough so I can sort everything out when I get back.  Later he asked a question about an email.  I explained the problem, what needed to be done to fix it, I had already contacted the professor and completed the service ticket.  I followed that up with “See, I do stuff.”  Childish on my part, but I couldn’t help myself.  Then I spent 30 minutes talking to 5 different service reps to get my cell phone bill corrected.  My 5 minute drive home took 20 because of Homecoming.  Stupid football.  Then I scratched my car, because someone decided to part badly.  At that point I was having a really bad day.  But was it over, Heck no.  I had to go to my 2nd job for the next 5 1/2 hours. 

To top off the night I was fixing the mess that was the infants department and some A$$HOLE oinked at me like a pig.  F***EN college $hithead.  You are in college, use that higher education and come up with something original.  I know I am fat.  I don’t need you to point it out by making crude animal noises.  I don’t know why I let him get under my skin so much.  Probably because it has been so long since someone had been so hurtful.  I know I am losing and making my life healthier.  I know I am better than him.  But it still hurts my feelings.  I am trying to let it go but it is difficult.  I can look at this as a more motivation to prove that I have the ablilty to change, he will always be an A$$.  I hope I get to that place soon. 

12 Comments so far

  1. kyliejo @ October 19th, 2009

    Oh no. That is SOOOOOOOOO hard when that happens. Hurts so bad. You are better than that.
    Well enjoy your week off…or try to!

  2. khmerbeauty @ October 19th, 2009

    What a total douchbag - I wish I had his name, face and address, I’ll oink him myself - asswipe!

    I don’t understand ignorant people like that. Karma is a total biat**!!!

    I feel so bad for you that you have to work two jobs. :( Jesse, you have so much on your plate. I hope you enjoy some of your vacation time cat! :(

  3. not2late4tina @ October 19th, 2009

    I’ll never forget my first mooing. :( People are just so mean, immature and insecure; more than likely because they have something going wrong in their own life. I do hope you enjoy being off from at least one of your jobs. Keep taking good care of yourself and I hope you know how wonderful you are.

  4. chelleybones @ October 19th, 2009

    Why is it that people feel the need to beat others down? I remember being barked at. I felt so humiliated. You handled yourself a lot better than I would have in that situation. Keep up the hard work and know that you are making changes and have the support here that you need.

  5. beckyboo @ October 19th, 2009

    Ooo, Jess. I am sooooooooooooooo SORRY about all of that CRAP! Esp the F#$@ing A$$hole that purposely hurt ur feelings :( U r right, u r making urself healthier and he is still going to be a class Z loser douchebag—hold the head high, sister! Ooo, one time when I wasnt even too terribly overweight, some guy referred to me as a porkchop! I sure wish I could see him now ;) Hugs and Kisses, Buddy ~~~ XoXoXo

  6. isuzyou @ October 19th, 2009

    I had a guy in high school who used to call me “Burger Queen” sometimes. He was FATTER THAN ME!! One time, I said to him, “really? not in your wildest dreams…” and when he looked confused, I said, “well, obviously YOU’RE the Burger King and me and you? We’re not happenin…” everyone laughed at HIM.

  7. Dagny @ October 19th, 2009

    Wow, what a jerk! I was picked on all through high school…they would say things like I waddle like a duck when I walked down the hall and more…the odd thing was I noticed the type of people who picked on me. Towards 9-12 grade they were not always the popular or preppy people who got A’s and excelled in classes. It was the less popular people. The people who took classes that…I will not say were not as advanced, but they were not college prep. So I loved all of my college prep classes because no one picked on me…
    I haven’t really been picked on in college…one professor told me if I wanted to teach I had to lose weight! That if he were the principle he would not hire me…
    Then one day last Spring during finals I decided to bring workout clothes and take a walk between finals. I was walking out in the lobby in my huge 2 or 3X shirt (because it wouldn’t matter if it got sweaty) and my hair in a pony tail and this one guy said something to me from across the room but I have no idea what it was, but everyone laughed (that kind of something)
    Well after I came back from my walk I washed my face, changed my clothes and brushed my hair and I bet it shocked them when I walked by in smaller clothes! lmao

  8. renee68 @ October 19th, 2009

    What a creep!! I will never understand why anyone would think that would be an ok thing to do!!!!!!! He is just a small, small, boy! Among other choice names.

    You hang in there! You are doing great & you are getting healthier every day!

    Enjoy having some free time on your vaca!!

  9. kamaperry @ October 19th, 2009

    What an a** hole!! jeez, I am so sorry. You keep your chin up, you are doing great!

  10. chubbymomma74 @ October 20th, 2009

    I remember in my late teen years when a girl called me a fat b!tch, now that we are 15 yrs older she is fatter than me. karma is cool that way….

  11. AuntTeeTee @ October 22nd, 2009

    I am really sorry you had a bad day. It is very hurtful when ppl are stupid..and thats what he was..plain ol stupid. But I agree with the above..karma..smile & know that it will come back on him

  12. NicoleM @ October 22nd, 2009

    OH, I am so sorry. And jerks like that will end up no where in life. You are an amazing person and it is his fault for being a dick. Hope tomorrow goes better.

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